Thursday, June 23, 2011

My talk for Sunday


Richard and I were asked to talk in the Branch in our Stake that is the care center. This is what I've come up with;






Swimming through life's trials.

Joseph Smith compared his trials in life to swimming in deep water. I want to do something similar.


6 of my 7 kids swam on our high school swim team. I learned something watching them swim and listening to their coaches. In order to swim fast one must swim lots and lots of yards. As we swim many yards our bodies learn how to swim more efficiently. Our bodies automatically learn to position themselves in the way that moves through the water with the least amount of resistance. We become more streamlined. So it is important to swim many yards every day to train our bodies to swim in the best, most efficient way. Moving through the water requires a constant effort. It is a struggle. As I have watched many swim competitions I have noticed that the fastest swimmers seem to glide effortlessly through the water, while the slower swimmers seem to struggle and work much harder. Swimming as the fast swimmer means we are more inline with the gospel teachings. The swimmer that is not efficient and swims more slowly is not following the pattern that leads to least resistance.




Since Adam and Eve left the garden of Eden and entered this world trials began. Life is a struggle. Bad things happen. Just like the swimmer we need to "workout" everyday to keep moving and progressing. Praying, reading the scriptures, serving others, and going to the temple are some of the things we can do to make ourselves spiritually fast swimmers. Following Jesus' example is the best pattern for how to live well and with the least amount of wasted motion. In 1 Corinthians 9:26 Paul says; "I therefore so run, not as uncertainly; so fight I not as one that beateth the air". We want to be like the fast swimmers that glide effortlessly through the water, not like the ones working hard or "beating the air" and not progressing.




We are still going to have trials. No one floats through this life and gets anywhere. As we spend time every day studying and trying to live the gospel we become more like our Savior, Jesus Christ. He is the best swimmer that ever swam in this life's race. As we put those miles of practice behind us, we will drop off those things that slow us down and make it hard for us to move ahead. We will become more like Christ. Making and keeping covenants is one of the best ways to keep ourselves aligned to the pattern Christ set for us.




The Elder Orson F. Whitney said; "No pain that we suffer, no trial that we experience is wasted...All that we suffer and all that we endure, especially when we endure it patiently, builds up our characters, purifies our hearts, expands our souls and makes us more tender and charitable.. It is through sorrow and suffering, toil and tribulation, that we gain the education that we come here to acquire." So as we move through the water, we change and our bodies and spirits conform to a more perfect form; a streamlined swimmer.




When we show up for the practice; by praying, reading our scriptures, going to church, going to the temple we are becoming strong enough to endure the trials of life. In the April conference Elder Paul V. Johnson said; "Sometimes we want to have growth without challenges and to develope strength without any struggle. But growth cannot come by taking the easy way. We clearly understand that an athlete who resists rigorous training will never become a world-class athlete. We must be careful that we don't resent the very things that help us put on the divine nature." We become better people when we endure well the trials given to us. Like the fast swimmer who moves smoothly through the water, we learn to move smoothly through our trials as our spirits learn to conform to the pattern that Christ showed us by the way He lived. The gradual changes come to us as we daily live and study the gospel, pray to our Heavenly Father and serve Him.




I've learned something else from watching my swimmers. Every year from about Thanksgiving until New Year's Day my kids do what is called "tear down". The coach has them wear "drag". They swim with shirts, shorts and even shoes on. This is very hard and really wears them out. Sometimes they even swim with weights held between their legs and the worst of all with a bucket tied to their feet to try and drag through the water. Then, about the first of the year they stop "tear down" and lose the drag gradually until they are back to swimming with just their suits and caps and goggles. Suddenly they seem to fly effortlessly through the water. They feel light and fast and are ready for the State competition that is usually about Valentine's Day.




Life is full of trials. We don't need other things slowing our progress and dragging us down. When we make mistakes and sin or are unable to forgive others who have wronged us it is like wearing clothes while we try to swim and for the worst sins like dragging buckets in the swimming pool.




We must repent to lose the things dragging and slowing us down in our lives. Then we are able to feel the spirit. We feel light and able to move ahead more easily through life's trials. Our Savior has paid the price for our sins. When we repent we can lose all of those things that are dragging us down, slowing us down and making our lives harder than they need to be.




I am so thankful for my Savior. This life's race isn't meant to be easy, but with the Savior's atonement we have the strength to endure. Hebrews 12:1 &2 says; ""Let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which does so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith.."





We don't have the be the first one to touch the wall to win this race! We need to just keep swimming! We need to drop off the excess weight of sin and follow the pattern our Savior showed us. Then we can get through the trials that come to us and endure them well. D&C 103:36 says; "All victory and glory is brought to pass unto you through your diligence, faithfulness and prayers of faith." And D&C 50:5 says; "But blessed are they who are faithful and endure, whether in life or in death, for they shall inherit eternal life".




I know that I plan to keep on practicing and hope to move forward to the prize of eternal life, not because of what I've accomplished, but because of what I have become. (Hopefully someone a lot like Christ).





My awesome famous nephew Jordan

I am not a kid, but today I had to go and buy a kid's meal at Carl Jr.'s. Just so I could get the toy!

My nephew Jordan Leary is the developer of this free online game for kids. It is so popular that they have action figures at ToysRus and today Carl's Jr. started selling kid's meals featuring Poptropica with a Poptropica toy!! Jordan will probably handle the fame okay. When he was at the Utah State University and he and his wife were struggling students he got his tuition reimbursed one semister unexpectedly. His wife told us that she found out what a great man she'd married when, after saying they should celebrate and she was thinking going out for ice cream, he said; "Let's give this money to someone who really needs it"! I say he'll handle the fame just fine!

Congrats to Jordan and Jo!



Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Piano Recital


Jonathan's recital performance of "So Close" and "Tribute".

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Super Dads and fun kids

Here's some pictures of my favorite dads. First; Richard:
I finally got to sing happy birthday to Richard! Elliott helped her grandpa blow out his candles! Jason with his new baby 18 months ago. James with his new baby 2 weeks ago. Notice how my grandson is being trained up to be a super dad one day. Dan with one of his girls. Tessa and Sophie adore their dad. Josh and his sweet girl. My Dad and Richard working on a project.I got to spend time with a few of my nieces' kids this week-end:
My great niece; Jane. My great niece Amelia My great nephew Dex. I am so blessed by the great men in my life; my dad, my husband, and the fathers of my grandchildren! thanks for all you do guys!

















Monday, June 13, 2011

Grandmothering in Houston

My first peek at Jane and it was love at first sight! It was kind of like having Jessica a baby again! I brought this old duplo toy for Dean because it has wheels that screw on and off, he got very upset when the wheels came off at first, but was okay with it a week or so later. Team Kendall feeding their kids.Jane and her beautiful mom. The awesome family Kendall!Sydney and Dean enjoying the water table on Jenny's balcony. Jason and Nicole come to visit. Sharing a chair and sitting, no easy feat to get them to sit! Uncle Jason napping with Jane. Aunt Nicole feeds Jane. The Loos family visits. Jane in her Sunday dress! Super Mom Jenny and kids. Dean loves this giraffe. He hugs it when he gets hurt or sad and sometime shares his drinks, binky and toys with it. I caught this smile!!! Dean was very pleased with this score from our trip to Target. There's a funny story about this pinwheel I'll tell you if you ask about it. Dean gets interested in his little sister. The don't touch thing was hard to learn. I think Jenny's life was easier when Dean ignored her. Jane's cord came off on the 7th and she got her first bath! We went to visit Nicole and Sydney. Its really relaxing to let the cuties play there. They have no stairs and a very child proof house! It had been so long since I'd been there and I was impressed with the new furniture and the cute decorating Nicole has done. Sharing cereal. Sydney is showing off her skills on her slide. Dean does not like to climb up it or go down it. They look like twins, but the are very different. Jason and Nicole's lawn got fried while they were gone for a week. Houston is having a draught. The kids helped out by running through the sprinkler. Sydney shared her chair with Dean. Sydney holds Jane. Sydney was very interested in Jane. The proud daddy poses for my baby in the hand picture collection. James is such a sweet dad and is turning into quite the athelete. He's training very seriously for a triathlon; running, biking, swimming and weight lifting. Jane is a very kissable girl! Dean shows off his car (everything with wheels is a car, including the dishwasher roll out rack) collection. Nicole came and got Dean and I and took us to the Children's museum. It was really awesome. They have this very cool area for toddlers and lots of cool stuff for older kids that we'll visit as the kids grow up. Getting a picture of the two kids together was harder than you'd think. They are so different and headed in opposite directions most of the time. Dean found a steering wheel! They had this cool padded floor outside patio area with cars, trikes and push toys. Sydney tried everything, but Dean just wanted to push this corn popper. Sydney and he raced around pushing them. Jane wore this special outfit for her dad's birthday. Sorry James, I know your eyes were closed in this shot, but its the only one in which I could read Jane's tummy. Yeah! Sydney came to the birthday party!! Nicole put her awesome cake decorating skills to work on this amazing birthday cake for James. Notice its James' tool box with tool candles! It happened to be delicious, too. Chillin'. Recently Jenny and James have been leaving their gate open and letting Dean climb the stairs. He loves it. Its his favorite place to play, when allowed. So proud! Busted! After gouging her face; its hand mitts for her! Jenny saying good-bye before heading to church. Cinderfella. Dean loves to "help out" in the kitchen! Luckily after leaving Houston late last night and missing my cute grandkids, I got to pick up Elliott early this morning. She took the sting out of leaving them behind. She got so big while I was gone! Life is good! I love grandkids!!!